Helping others..

Hey, wassup guys!

Actually, today I’m not really in the mood to write a post (because the England team didn’t made it to the semi final but my top favorite team, Spain was in the semi final of Euro 2012. Good job!). Therefore, I decide to write a short post here (maybe..)

Nah, my post ain’t about football (maybe next time if I’m really bored and out of idea). My topic of the day will be about helping people.

Honestly, how many of us out there are really helping people with their kind heart? Without thinking about reward..

How many of us when saw an accident, will rush toward to help without thinking much? Instead of standing on the side and keep saying those words “pity that guy”.

I won’t dare to admit that I’m the person that will help people with kind heart. Sometimes, I do think of reward (even get frustrated if I don’t get the reward). I try my best to get rid of this bad attitude. One simple step, just don’t expect too much when you helping someone (even though you are not really willing to help that person). Less expectation less disappointment. I guess I’m right at this point.

In the past, I help a lot people but didn’t get any compliment and yet being used. My friends only remember me when they need something from me. At that time, I feel disappointed because I expect too much from them (I thought we will struggle through together).

Now, I learned to handle this kind of friend and I don’t get frustrated anymore. One solution, avoid them and you will be happier without them around you. Find your true friends that will stand with you (I really found some maybe just take a longer time compare to others).

In the end, helping other is an easy and simple task. All you need is your heart.

if you ever find yourself stuck in the middle of the sea, i'll sail the way to find you

p.s: Sometimes I do test my friend’s kindness. What a bad guy I am. Sorry :P