Sarcasm is a new word for me but this word actually had existed around me quite a long time (since I was born to this cruel ruled world :P). Finally, I find this word to define people around me- sarcasm.
So, my definition for sarcasm means the use of unpleasant remarks with the intention to hurt people’s feeling. Ever wonder where I learn this world. I learn it from a comedy The Big Bang Theory (the comedies that I recommend everyone to watch. BAZINGA~).
Ay!
This post is not on The Big Bang Theory review (although I would give a 8.5 out 10 for this comedy^^). But I wanna talk about how people sarcasm me. Maybe in the comedy it looks funny but in the reality it hurts and shatters me into pieces.
Story #1
It happens back at my university (my life *UCK here) where I just did my ear piercing. For me wearing an earring it was kind of fashion but for them it’s a taboo. Many people sarcasm me whether with intention or not.
Some say guy wearing an earring will bring bad luck (kinda right since I meet you bunch of as*). Some say guy wearing an earring is gay (kiss my as*). I rather play basketball than Barbie :P
Story #2
Also happen at my university, where my housemates sarcasm on how I look. A guy which is skinnier than me told me that look too thin and reminds me to eat more. Another roommate who just wears like a kid told me to dress up better. Sometimes I wonder did they even stare at themselves in the mirror for 5 minutes (I did this all the time and remind myself “I ain’t created perfect but I am trying my best to be perfect”).
Blah Blah Blah.. Not in the mood to talk about the past because I learn that we can’t change the past but we can change the future. So peps let’s move on.
Here is the advice I would like to share when you be sarcasm:
BUCK UP!!
That’s right buck up peps. No matters how hard their word hit you, you stay and stood still. Show them that you’re more than a survivor; a fighter. Don’t give up or step back. Its only show them you are weak and easier target for them. Thanks them for sarcasm-ing me (it makes me a stronger person everyday).
And lastly, don’t sarcasm. It’s hurt no matter light or heavy. You never know what consequences your word can bring to people. Think twice before you speak (where people seldom do). Never too late make a change buddy. PEACE!
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| bucking up myself at the gym from physical to emotional :) |
